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Wednesday, March 06, 2013

Little Notes of Life.

 

 

 

 

Spring is definitely in the air. Winter sports are coming to an end and we have more days over 70 degrees then under. I saw wild flowers along the highway yesterday and a little bird flying to and and from the bird house Scott made last year that swings from the front tree.

This is a chore day. I'm over my head in laundry as I sit, needing a good excuse to take a break and this is it. Brighton decided all the chairs around the table needed scrubbing and it's been keeping the little girls busy for 30 minutes. They are making a bigger mess than was there, but goodness, I don't care because they are having a blast and they think they are working. Ultimately I think it will go over nicely because they are looking cleaner and I can just go through and dry it all up. The floor is even looking better where they have spilled the soapy water. For that matter, the girls are looking cleaner too.

Except for Baby - she still has purple marker all over her mouth from their coloring time at a way too early hour of 7am.

The above pictures are from a few weeks ago when we took our weekend hike. The boys showed us new trails. Eventually the younger five and Robert and I were trailing too far behind to keep up. We took a rest on a log over looking the water. The little ones all seemed to be in their own worlds, finding new worlds in little seeds, trees, stumps, puddles. I love having my camera slung over my shoulder because when I stop and look through the lens I find new worlds too.

New light, new details, new wonders.

I don't post many pics of Robert and I and I almost didn't post the one of us kissing because I'm lame and for fleeting moments I wonder if people will think strange things. Then I'm like - that's stupid. People always think strange things about us, even down right lies about us and so what -- the picture is who we are; we kiss all the time. Our kids know it's a huge part of our relationship and we love being close and touchy all the chances we get.  

The last three shots of Lake are so classicly her. She has a huge imagination and everything she finds on our hike is something else - like the stick being a flute, a long piece of grass her "horsey's mane" and a rock is her "precious gold" or like last time, "It's my bread for my long journey home!"

We spotted a butterfly that had come too soon and was weak from the evening cool. Morgan held it for some of our hike, leaving it in a shelter she thought would see it through the night.

The boys came back with stories of caves and a bobcat. They said in the dark it's fur looked like Shelton's hair. Then it moved and they knew it wasn't. Not to worry, they said, between them all they were carrying 20 knives. Haha. I think they should start their own blog taking their own camera along. It would be hilarious! 

 ~

I didn't take these basketball shots - someone else did, in fact, I didn't take my camera to any of their games because this year having the three little girls with me each game was like having a three ring circus along. They do their best, but seriously, they think we come to basketball games to eat and go to the bathroom. Or for Lake, she's certain we come so she can talk to everyone who is trying to watch the game.

If you want to know personal details about our family just come to a game and sit behind us. Lake will inform you without you even having to act nosey and ask -- and I will be too busy with the baby and trying to watch the game to care.

She will tell all sorts of things that don't even happen, because her imagination is the one who turns sticks to flutes, grass to horsey manes and rocks to gold. Week before last I heard her tell a lady, "My daddy doesn't have a job, he just drives a truck." The lady asked what kind of car we drove with so many people in our family (seriously, ask a three year old?) and Lake said, "It's a black one but it's too small for all of us and my mommy doesn't like it."

So yeah, she tells the truth too - sometimes. This last game she informed someone that I did change my hair color this past week. Which is true. I matured past the bleach blonde and went darker and it's way more me, whatever that means~

 

 

Flag football is done for the winter and as usual Christian had the time of his life. . .

We've had several good park days and I've told myself that I am going to do less house work this spring and more parks. I was so much better at that when I just had the little boys at park age. Now since there are more kiddos and more work, I have more of this guilty battle I put myself under when things are out of control messy at home. I think I can't go and enjoy the kids until things are all done. But that's so wrong, because things are never done here. Ever. There are endless, endless chores.

So, I'm going to the parks. We are going to swing more, slide more, climb more and feed the ducks more. Just me with them. No mom days out with female companions that are wonderful but keep my focus off of playing with my kids. No iphone in hand, texting away or making lists on my notes of groceries needed and chores to be done when I return home. 

I need Lake's imagination. And imagine my laundry pile just now is really just a representation of the provision and wealth I have as a middle class American, way more than needed, and can be ignored until someone says, "Mom, I don't have any underwear." winky

Well, not always. Today I'm folding and putting it all away because I can't see out my front window anymore from my desk because of it, and Shelton did say he was out of undies.

"And my spirit rejoices in God my Savior. . ." Luke 1:47

"Behold, what I have seen to be good and fitting is to eat and drink and find enjoyment in all the toil with which one toils under the sun the few days of his life that God has given him. . . " Ecc. 5:18

"A merry heart is like medicine: but a broken spirit dries up the bones." Prov. 17:22

 

 

Life is to be enjoyed, not just endured. I don't always feel thanksgiving. . . but I can make a choice to be thankful and when I do, I get new eyes for what lies ahead in my day.

Alyssa

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You are loved, your family is GORGEOUS, and guess what?  The picture of you and R. was my favorite one of the bunch!  Very romantic, and so very important for couples to keep the love burning throughout life together.

Posted 3/6/2013 12:44 PM by purpleamethyst76 - recommend - reply

i liked the kissing. ;) i had to send the blog link over to my husband to show him our hiking/kissing/lotsofbabies future. :)
Posted 3/6/2013 12:59 PM by Naomi Elle (site) - recommend - reply

This blog is a blessing to me. Our family has been through grief and trama in the last 2 years. We have come a long way but still have so far to go. So much hurt.....sometimes that's all we can. You remind me each time I read that God is here and HE knows. WE have 4 boys and I honestly thank you for putting all the pics of your young men doing what boys do. I have battled with what's safe, what could someone think about this, or worse -crushing their spirit because they just wanted to be boys and I didn't get it b/c I'm a girl.  I hope you always post and that it's always truthful, despite what others may say. Your blog inspires  :D  

_in HIM,

Heather

Posted 3/6/2013 1:06 PM by Heather - recommend - reply

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Sweet pictures of a sweet family. Thanks for sharing the stories that Lakelyn likes to tell people. It must be so much fun to listen to her. Also, thank you for the reminder to put the iPhone away. Playing with my daughter is important; more important than looking up information about things or making lists, etc. I feel like I've gotten into a bad habit of letting my daughter watch tv to keep her distracted instead of letting her interact with me. I don't like it. Being a mother who is there is so important.
Posted 3/6/2013 1:15 PM by peaceatthelake - recommend - reply

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@purpleamethyst76 - whadda ya know, I forgot to turn off comments today lol - and what a surprise to see them coming through my email - a sweet surprise. Thank you Shanda. Your pics inspire because they are unashamed and loving. I try to "bless" too many types of people, politically correct if you will, to certain circles. . . then realize the stupidity it is to ever be politcally/or for that matter "spiritually" correct. Thanks for always pointing the way. Glad you liked the pic - I LOVE IT. ;)
blessings
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@Naomi Elle - oh, and it is wonderful and may your future hold lots of kissing/hiking/babies -- it was been a life well worth living, adventure I'd never imagined. :) blessings!
Posted 3/6/2013 1:48 PM by resolved2worship - recommend - reply

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@Heather - Heather, I'm so sorry for your grief. I've walked some deep valleys, ones I've never dared to share here -- and hurt is hard. to put it mildly. May God bring redemption and healing. He is in that business -- even better, He is that kind of Father. Have a heart full of peace letting those boys be boys! -- there is nothing, NOTHING :) - like a crew of boys all together, brothers all under one roof. It is crazy isn't it? They have taught me more than I knew I needed to learn.
Posted 3/6/2013 1:50 PM by resolved2worship - recommend - reply

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@peaceatthelake - Oh, yes her stories are quite interesting! ;) Ya know, we've all been there, wanting to occupy our kiddos to get things done. I fight it like everyone else. It's taken practice, patience, persistence to keep them priority. But it's my heart - keep keeping on that way, God will do it. Have a blessed day!
Posted 3/6/2013 1:52 PM by resolved2worship - recommend - reply

This is my first time being able to comment here so I'll do so while I can.  :)  I am blessed by your blog and your love for your children and husband and God.  Don't worry what others are thinking, it doesn't matter and I thought the picture of you and your husband was sweet and a picture you will cherish forever.  God's blessing to you tonight.
Posted 3/6/2013 6:50 PM by Theresa (site) - recommend - reply

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JUST when I thought I couldn't pick a favorite photo....As usual, your post is amazing...a blessing. Prov. 17:22 is excellent. I'm so thankful that Jesus is the medicine that heals the brokenness! Thank you for being here.
Posted 3/6/2013 9:37 PM by Richgem - recommend - reply

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Alyssa, you and your entire family are so beautiful. I always look forward to new posts from you. You know, there comes a time when I unsubscribe from blogs because they just get tiring, but I NEVER tire of your lovely words and photos. I love the photo of you and Robert kissing. You are married, and your love for each other is something not to be ashamed of. Only God can do that in a marriage! The picture of you on his back with that HUGE smile looks just like your girls, especially Brighton. Everytime I see pics of your kids at play, I wish mine could come play with yours ;) My 4 are the same ages as your youngest 4 (same genders too, except the babes). It's perfect, really!!! Thank you so much for blogging! You have no idea the ways you have changed me, as a mother. Do not become weary in doing good (Gal, 6:9).
Posted 3/7/2013 12:01 AM by Jenarch - recommend - reply

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love the kissing, love Lake's imagination, love the photos and especially love all of you ~ glad the comments were on ~ keep on keepin' on, dear friend ~ blessings and hugs ~
Posted 3/7/2013 6:49 AM by fwren Xanga True Member Xanga Lifetime Member - recommend - reply

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Beautiful photos, as usual, and I even took the time to read what was in between! Feeling so jealous that you are having nice weather, when we're still looking at snow and gray skies. Someday, I'm moving south! Glad to know your house is out of control messy like mine, and thanks for the reminder that I should just chuck it all and go play with my kids. It's so hard because a messy house makes my soul feel messy! But with the ages and number of children in our home, I could seriously spend my entire life cleaning and never keep up. Anyway, have a wonderful day!
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I always appreciate your blog posts.
Thank you.
Posted 3/7/2013 7:25 AM by fourfiftythree - recommend - reply

your blog always blesses me.  i'm so glad the Lord placed it on your heart to share your life with others in this way. i never walk away from reading without something to think on.  thank you for that!

and p.s.  ~i thought the picture of you and your husband kissing is sooo NOT stupid and made me wish for some like it of me and my husband.  i have only one picture of us in a romantic moment like that,  and it sits in a frame in our bedroom because it's an important part of our married lives,  and it makes me smile EVERY time i look at it.  you are going to appreciate that photo years from now more than you know. 

take more of them!!! you'll not regret it ever!

Posted 3/7/2013 7:55 AM by michele - recommend - reply

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I am 13 years old, and your blog is my favorite. I check your blog for an update every day. Some things I skim read-like parenting stuff. I'm a little young for that.;) but I read everything else, and your photos are gorgeous! You are such a deep person, and you write in an open, honest, sincere way. You inspire and challenge me. Lake makes me laugh. She's just too cute.:) I would love to meet you sometime! Like I said before, my mom and I absolutely love your blog. Thank you for being YOU.
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Ain't life grand!
Posted 3/8/2013 10:17 AM by pwdrgurl - recommend - reply

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yaY! for more sliding and swinging and climbing. i'm with ya..
up here we just gotta wait for the snow to melt so we can even see the playground. ;)

glad you posted the kissing picture~
you KNOW.. those who matter don't mind, and those who do, well.. don't! :)
you are loved by many!

like the hair darker. though i just got mine a bit lighter yesterday.
think i'm feeling the winter blahs and ready for summer..
i need to come your way again.
i should see if another brother is ready to get married. ;)
got any good texas girls available. ha!

have a great weekend. xo
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Yayy...comments!! Love the kissing picture, super sexy and romantic!:)
Posted 3/8/2013 12:05 PM by made2adoreyou - recommend - reply

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@Theresa - Thank you for your sweet words. ~ :)
Posted 3/8/2013 4:35 PM by resolved2worship - recommend - reply

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@Jenarch - thank you - yes, may we not be weary in well doing! Ever heard the song Worn by 10th avenue north? Sometimes I feel just like that song -- at the same time, so much hope to keep on. blessings~
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@fwren - to you too!
Posted 3/8/2013 4:37 PM by resolved2worship - recommend - reply

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@sevenarrows9 - oh, yes know that soul messy feeling. Takin' some time to just ignore it and not feel shamed by what doesn't get done. . . somehow I know though that it's worth the trade :)
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@michele - how encouraging! thank you for your kind words! Yes, I know I will cherish it, already thinking I'd like to print it for a small frame. . . ~ :)
Posted 3/8/2013 4:39 PM by resolved2worship - recommend - reply

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@brooke_dream - Thank you for your sweet words! I remember 13 like it was yesterday. . . life goes by fast, enjoy the time you have your age -- :) God bless you!
Posted 3/8/2013 4:40 PM by resolved2worship - recommend - reply

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